I asked a close friend of mine if she had any suggestions for today’s post. I told her I am in the middle of a month-long giveaway for this blog and that I want to offer a huge amount of value for all of you beloved and beautiful readers out there. This month is all about expressing my appreciation for life, the universe, and everything. That includes you, both now, and in the future, which is your now, now.
Ok, you caught me beating around the bush. She did give me an answer for today’s technique, but I wasn’t sure how it would fit into Creative Deconstruction and Escape Plans Unlimited. After much introspection, I saw very clearly how to use her suggestion to create an immense amount of value for everyone everywhere.
At first I thought, Nah, this is way too risky. People might get the wrong idea…. Then I realized none of that matters. The secret I am about to reveal will seem ridiculously simple to some of you. To others, it will seem confusing. I found it shocking when I found out about men who do not know about this apparent secret.
Some strange combination of taboo and poor parenting keeps a huge amount of bodily knowledge and experience from us. How many of you reading this have ever given your partner or lover a full body massage? How many of you reading this feel ashamed over masturbation? How many of you would feel strange about using your own gag reflex to alleviate massive amounts of tension?
These are but a few of the millions of fun experiments and experiences you can ENJOY and learn from, with a little Creative Deconstruction and an Escape Plan of some kind. (drop me a line for more info! 
Take a look at the following picture. It depicts a symptom of the deep sexual fear and affliction many Americans now suffer from. While we do not have anti-masturbation devices on the market (at least as far I as I know), the devices once existed. See how it has a lock on it? that was so parents could lock their children into these devices. So, if you are feeling squeamish or offended by this post, know that the source of the squeamishness is the same as the source of devices such as these:
- Image via Wikipedia
This brings me to today’s more profoundly simple secret. This secret holds a key to unlimited amounts of pleasure and joy. How many of you reading this have never heard of and experienced the clitoris?
That’s right, the clitoris. Immediately a psychic censor screams at me in my head as I write this.
“Don’t publish this post! Are you crazy? No one will want to do an interview for your blog if you write something like this!”
Well, too bad then. I could not believe my ears when I heard that there are some men out there who have never heard of nor showed appreciation for the clitoris. Of course there are plenty of porn sites out there for you to explore to find techniques, see all the variations in size and shape, and possibly be inspired by the ensuing pleasure.
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The purpose of this site is to expand the possibilities for enjoyment, adventure, love, and creativity. If even one person discovers the clitoris from this post, how wonderful for the women in his or her life! Imagine yourself as a woman. You have a part of you that can generate immense amounts of pleasure. Your lover just doesn’t understand your anatomy at all. He ignores the clitoris and instead just fumbles around.
Next, your partner comes here to read my newest blog post and takes some time to research the clitoris. He comes up with a few techniques to surprise you. Whammo! You are surprised with the best orgasm you have had in years! All due to the knowledge of human anatomy and a visit to this blog!
There is nothing wrong with the clitoris, and there is nothing wrong with sex. I notice–and I wonder if anyone else notices–a disturbing sense that this kind of thing should not be talked about or publicized. Well, for God’s sake, these are our very own body parts! I want to say that again… These are your very own body parts, and there is nothing shameful about them. It is fine to discuss sexuality, and it is fine to publicize the clitoris.
Sexual satisfaction between authentic people is a most beautiful bodymind endeavor. The clitoris plays a major role in sexual satisfaction for women. The more you learn to please the people in your life, the more they will want to please you, too. This goes for everything from sex to doing the dishes, cooking a meal, or even running a business.
I remember hiding in my room as a 12-year-old and reading my mother’s Cosmopolitan and Glamour magazines. I read all the articles on sex I could find. Even though sex was all around, in movies, on TV commercials, and in public dialogue, no one ever really talked to me about the details of it. It was as if the subject of sex had to be kept in a ziplock bag and handled with rubber gloves.
So, my curiosity led me to look at all those tantalizing articles and fashion pictures. I learned about the female anatomy and how to please a woman sexually, and I learned about the wonders of the clitoris. You know what the main thing I learned was? I learned that every woman is different, and that to discover what a woman really enjoys, I would have to ask. Women: tell your lovers what you enjoy! You are sharing intimate space with these people. It is just fine to ask for what you want!
By the time I became sexually active, I already had in mind all kinds of things I wanted to try. Yep, the little scientist in me was active even in those early days.
Although today’s secret, the clitoris, is not exactly a technique, it hints at something for more profound and deeper than just sexuality. Remember this: Your body is Your Body, and you can do anything with it you want. It is a marvelous garden of delights and magnificence waiting to be discovered, played in, and tended. Explore yourself, explore other people, find all the joy and pleasure in life that awaits you once you escape from false ideas about yourself and cross over into the realm of Creative Deconstruction.
Drop by tomorrow for two more powerful tools for converting tension to energy!
May this post be used for the benefit of all beings everywhere.
I love you all,
-Garrett
As long as we are not getting stuck with the idea that the sexual energy is most pleasant of all. It can be wonderful. But there is so much better an experience when making love with the divine throughout the whole being and not just through sexual organs, and not even just at the time of sexual intercourse.
Well, only one of 31 secret tools had to do overtly with sexuality….it just happens to be a wonderful part of being alive.
One more comment I wanted to make, is that I feel that most porns don’t focus on women’s pleasure, but a small percentage do. Also, there are books on sex and even at least one book specifically about the Clitoris. Cheers!
How do I change my little pic in the comments section? Thanks!
It is true, I feel that we must love ourselves & know ourselves before we can truly do so for another… I advocate masturbation even for people who are having a good amount of sex with others. Love yourself!
It is SO sad that the clitoris is not more well know, there are so many variations. A few facts about clits is that they have more nerve endings than the head of a penis & they serve the sole purpose of pleasure! That’s it! A woman doesn’t need a clit to reproduce (though some say orgasms help with impregnation)-it’s there for our pleasure! I also say… Don’t forget the G SPOT!!! It should be taught as a part of female anatomy in every sex ed class! Cheers!